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0:03 look at that isn't it awesome do you

0:03 look at that isn't it awesome do you know what that is it's the Haunted

0:07 know what that is it's the Haunted

0:07 know what that is it's the Haunted Mansion and this is the last night of

0:10 Mansion and this is the last night of

0:10 Mansion and this is the last night of the Haunted Mansion for

0:13 the Haunted Mansion for

0:13 the Haunted Mansion for 2015 not because it's going anywhere but

0:16 2015 not because it's going anywhere but

0:16 2015 not because it's going anywhere but because it's getting the hotted Mansion

0:18 because it's getting the hotted Mansion

0:18 because it's getting the hotted Mansion holiday overlay soon and this is the

0:19 holiday overlay soon and this is the

0:19 holiday overlay soon and this is the last night it's open in its normal form

0:21 last night it's open in its normal form

0:21 last night it's open in its normal form and this is also the sometimes

0:39 there's a vlog that happens sometimes

0:39 there's a vlog that happens sometimes and sometimes it happens right here on

0:41 and sometimes it happens right here on

0:41 and sometimes it happens right here on the

0:42 the

0:42 the stoop at the Haunted Mansion isn't that

0:46 stoop at the Haunted Mansion isn't that

0:46 stoop at the Haunted Mansion isn't that awesome it just looks so cool I just

0:47 awesome it just looks so cool I just

0:47 awesome it just looks so cool I just want to keep looking at that and never

0:49 want to keep looking at that and never

0:49 want to keep looking at that and never go anywhere else welcome everybody to

0:51 go anywhere else welcome everybody to

0:51 go anywhere else welcome everybody to the sometimes Vlog and yesterday Tyler

0:53 the sometimes Vlog and yesterday Tyler

0:53 the sometimes Vlog and yesterday Tyler and I sat on the porch of the city

0:56 and I sat on the porch of the city

0:56 and I sat on the porch of the city meaning a curb somewhere in uh Oldtown

0:58 meaning a curb somewhere in uh Oldtown

0:58 meaning a curb somewhere in uh Oldtown orange and talked for about 45 to 50

1:01 orange and talked for about 45 to 50

1:01 orange and talked for about 45 to 50 minutes about pretty

1:04 minutes about pretty

1:04 minutes about pretty much nothing now it's just you and I

1:07 much nothing now it's just you and I

1:07 much nothing now it's just you and I together here on the porch of the

1:09 together here on the porch of the

1:09 together here on the porch of the Haunted Mansion at Disneyland summer is

1:11 Haunted Mansion at Disneyland summer is

1:11 Haunted Mansion at Disneyland summer is winding down but it's still time to go

1:15 winding down but it's still time to go

1:15 winding down but it's still time to go film crazy randomland adventures and

1:16 film crazy randomland adventures and

1:16 film crazy randomland adventures and have wild adventures and tonight is my

1:19 have wild adventures and tonight is my

1:19 have wild adventures and tonight is my last night riding the Haunted Mansion as

1:21 last night riding the Haunted Mansion as

1:21 last night riding the Haunted Mansion as is in 2015 before the Haunted Mansion

1:23 is in 2015 before the Haunted Mansion

1:23 is in 2015 before the Haunted Mansion overlay and it would be anyways even if

1:25 overlay and it would be anyways even if

1:25 overlay and it would be anyways even if there was a couple days before the

1:26 there was a couple days before the

1:26 there was a couple days before the overlay cuz I'm going on a little bit of

1:29 overlay cuz I'm going on a little bit of

1:29 overlay cuz I'm going on a little bit of a road trip as usual going out of

1:31 a road trip as usual going out of

1:31 a road trip as usual going out of town uh the rubber's going to hit the

1:33 town uh the rubber's going to hit the

1:33 town uh the rubber's going to hit the road but I'll be around of course on the

1:37 road but I'll be around of course on the

1:37 road but I'll be around of course on the sometimes Vlog I never leave you but

1:39 sometimes Vlog I never leave you but

1:39 sometimes Vlog I never leave you but every time I'm going to leave even if

1:40 every time I'm going to leave even if

1:40 every time I'm going to leave even if it's just for like a day or so even if

1:42 it's just for like a day or so even if

1:42 it's just for like a day or so even if I'm just going a couple hours away I

1:45 I'm just going a couple hours away I

1:45 I'm just going a couple hours away I always have to come and soak in a little

1:48 always have to come and soak in a little

1:48 always have to come and soak in a little bit of Disneyland before I leave cuz why

1:51 bit of Disneyland before I leave cuz why

1:51 bit of Disneyland before I leave cuz why not why wouldn't you well sorry about

1:53 not why wouldn't you well sorry about

1:53 not why wouldn't you well sorry about that so anyway I'm just wandering around

1:55 that so anyway I'm just wandering around

1:55 that so anyway I'm just wandering around here at night and all day I've just been

1:57 here at night and all day I've just been

1:57 here at night and all day I've just been thinking to myself about different stuff

1:58 thinking to myself about different stuff

1:58 thinking to myself about different stuff you guys ever get bummed out for no

2:00 you guys ever get bummed out for no

2:00 you guys ever get bummed out for no reason like especially if you know

2:02 reason like especially if you know

2:02 reason like especially if you know something good is coming or something

2:04 something good is coming or something

2:04 something good is coming or something good just happened there's sort of those

2:05 good just happened there's sort of those

2:05 good just happened there's sort of those Peaks and valleys in your life you s to

2:07 Peaks and valleys in your life you s to

2:07 Peaks and valleys in your life you s to get bummed out for no reason I'm not

2:08 get bummed out for no reason I'm not

2:08 get bummed out for no reason I'm not talking about like crazy depressed but

2:11 talking about like crazy depressed but

2:11 talking about like crazy depressed but just sort of down and bummed out lately

2:12 just sort of down and bummed out lately

2:13 just sort of down and bummed out lately I've been down and bummed out things

2:14 I've been down and bummed out things

2:14 I've been down and bummed out things have been getting to me things have been

2:17 have been getting to me things have been

2:17 have been getting to me things have been getting to me at an abnormal rate I'm

2:19 getting to me at an abnormal rate I'm

2:19 getting to me at an abnormal rate I'm normally very positive by the way before

2:20 normally very positive by the way before

2:20 normally very positive by the way before any of you think I'm bald I'm not bald I

2:22 any of you think I'm bald I'm not bald I

2:22 any of you think I'm bald I'm not bald I did get a haircut today it's not my

2:24 did get a haircut today it's not my

2:24 did get a haircut today it's not my favorite haircut it's not my least

2:25 favorite haircut it's not my least

2:25 favorite haircut it's not my least favorite haircut but it's a haircut I

2:28 favorite haircut but it's a haircut I

2:28 favorite haircut but it's a haircut I could not stand the shag carpet that was

2:32 could not stand the shag carpet that was

2:32 could not stand the shag carpet that was growing and festering on my neck all

2:35 growing and festering on my neck all

2:35 growing and festering on my neck all this time no things have been kind of

2:37 this time no things have been kind of

2:37 this time no things have been kind of bugging me lately I don't know whether

2:40 bugging me lately I don't know whether

2:40 bugging me lately I don't know whether it's just that I'm over sensitive lately

2:44 it's just that I'm over sensitive lately

2:44 it's just that I'm over sensitive lately or just I've been a little stressed out

2:46 or just I've been a little stressed out

2:46 or just I've been a little stressed out or under the weather which is true I've

2:48 or under the weather which is true I've

2:48 or under the weather which is true I've been gluten poison quite a lot lately I

2:50 been gluten poison quite a lot lately I

2:50 been gluten poison quite a lot lately I haven't been as careful I haven't been

2:51 haven't been as careful I haven't been

2:51 haven't been as careful I haven't been at home as much uh carefully

2:54 at home as much uh carefully

2:54 at home as much uh carefully handcrafting on my own food but um yeah

2:58 handcrafting on my own food but um yeah

2:58 handcrafting on my own food but um yeah just sort of just on a downer note

3:01 just sort of just on a downer note

3:01 just sort of just on a downer note lately for obvious reasons some less

3:03 lately for obvious reasons some less

3:03 lately for obvious reasons some less obvious reasons but things have been

3:06 obvious reasons but things have been

3:06 obvious reasons but things have been getting to me but of course I'm on the

3:08 getting to me but of course I'm on the

3:08 getting to me but of course I'm on the Quest for positiv if you guys are

3:11 Quest for positiv if you guys are

3:11 Quest for positiv if you guys are unfamiliar with the Quest for positiv

3:13 unfamiliar with the Quest for positiv

3:13 unfamiliar with the Quest for positiv you've only joined in the last few

3:15 you've only joined in the last few

3:15 you've only joined in the last few months on the some sometimes long and

3:17 months on the some sometimes long and

3:17 months on the some sometimes long and you haven't been here for a year because

3:18 you haven't been here for a year because

3:18 you haven't been here for a year because it's been about a year now of the quest

3:21 it's been about a year now of the quest

3:21 it's been about a year now of the quest the positivity it's basically this you

3:23 the positivity it's basically this you

3:23 the positivity it's basically this you can't control what happens to you all

3:26 can't control what happens to you all

3:26 can't control what happens to you all the time you can't sometimes you can

3:27 the time you can't sometimes you can

3:27 the time you can't sometimes you can sometimes you can't mostly you can't

3:29 sometimes you can't mostly you can't

3:29 sometimes you can't mostly you can't control I just want to look h a lot so

3:30 control I just want to look h a lot so

3:30 control I just want to look h a lot so I'm just going to keep pointing the

3:31 I'm just going to keep pointing the

3:31 I'm just going to keep pointing the camera at things just so you know uh you

3:34 camera at things just so you know uh you

3:34 camera at things just so you know uh you can't always control what happens to you

3:36 can't always control what happens to you

3:36 can't always control what happens to you you know you can't control what other

3:37 you know you can't control what other

3:37 you know you can't control what other people do you can't control what other

3:39 people do you can't control what other

3:39 people do you can't control what other people say and even if you can control

3:42 people say and even if you can control

3:42 people say and even if you can control those things you certainly can't control

3:44 those things you certainly can't control

3:44 those things you certainly can't control what they think can you however you can

3:49 what they think can you however you can

3:49 what they think can you however you can control to an extent your reaction to

3:52 control to an extent your reaction to

3:52 control to an extent your reaction to those things so the question for

3:53 those things so the question for

3:53 those things so the question for positivity is this negative things are

3:55 positivity is this negative things are

3:55 positivity is this negative things are going to happen fact of life not to be

3:58 going to happen fact of life not to be

3:58 going to happen fact of life not to be cynical

3:59 cynical

3:59 cynical negative things are going to happen and

4:01 negative things are going to happen and

4:01 negative things are going to happen and usually we all react in this kind of

4:02 usually we all react in this kind of

4:02 usually we all react in this kind of cynical way where we get down we think

4:05 cynical way where we get down we think

4:05 cynical way where we get down we think life is bad but instead of thinking life

4:07 life is bad but instead of thinking life

4:07 life is bad but instead of thinking life is bad instead of getting the poor mes

4:10 is bad instead of getting the poor mes

4:10 is bad instead of getting the poor mes which everyone has for a moment you're

4:11 which everyone has for a moment you're

4:11 which everyone has for a moment you're going to get frustrated at times you're

4:13 going to get frustrated at times you're

4:13 going to get frustrated at times you're going to get poor me about things

4:14 going to get poor me about things

4:14 going to get poor me about things sometimes but the most important thing

4:16 sometimes but the most important thing

4:16 sometimes but the most important thing to do is to choose to rise above it and

4:20 to do is to choose to rise above it and

4:20 to do is to choose to rise above it and stay as positive as you can despite the

4:23 stay as positive as you can despite the

4:23 stay as positive as you can despite the circumstances now the reason is manyfold

4:26 circumstances now the reason is manyfold

4:26 circumstances now the reason is manyfold but just to simplify CU we've done this

4:28 but just to simplify CU we've done this

4:28 but just to simplify CU we've done this a lot you can go back in this channel

4:29 a lot you can go back in this channel

4:29 a lot you can go back in this channel see some other quest for positivity

4:31 see some other quest for positivity

4:31 see some other quest for positivity videos but the reason is manyfold and

4:34 videos but the reason is manyfold and

4:34 videos but the reason is manyfold and one of the primary reasons being that

4:36 one of the primary reasons being that

4:36 one of the primary reasons being that yeah being positive in and of itself

4:38 yeah being positive in and of itself

4:38 yeah being positive in and of itself won't change circumstance let's say

4:39 won't change circumstance let's say

4:39 won't change circumstance let's say somebody's got cancer and it's really

4:41 somebody's got cancer and it's really

4:41 somebody's got cancer and it's really sad being positive is not going to

4:44 sad being positive is not going to

4:44 sad being positive is not going to necessarily change the fact of the

4:47 necessarily change the fact of the

4:47 necessarily change the fact of the cancer but it's going to make you think

4:48 cancer but it's going to make you think

4:48 cancer but it's going to make you think clear it's going to make everybody

4:49 clear it's going to make everybody

4:49 clear it's going to make everybody around you think clear everybody's going

4:51 around you think clear everybody's going

4:51 around you think clear everybody's going to be in a bigger mood or let's say

4:52 to be in a bigger mood or let's say

4:52 to be in a bigger mood or let's say You're really stressed out because you

4:53 You're really stressed out because you

4:53 You're really stressed out because you might lose your job well you can take it

4:56 might lose your job well you can take it

4:56 might lose your job well you can take it out on other people you can be angry at

4:59 out on other people you can be angry at

4:59 out on other people you can be angry at everything around you and you can be

5:00 everything around you and you can be

5:00 everything around you and you can be really upset about what you can't

5:02 really upset about what you can't

5:02 really upset about what you can't control or you can realize you can

5:04 control or you can realize you can

5:04 control or you can realize you can control your reaction to the situation

5:06 control your reaction to the situation

5:06 control your reaction to the situation try and look at all the bright sides

5:08 try and look at all the bright sides

5:08 try and look at all the bright sides calm down be as positive as you can and

5:11 calm down be as positive as you can and

5:11 calm down be as positive as you can and you're going to relax you're going to

5:12 you're going to relax you're going to

5:12 you're going to relax you're going to make better decisions and hopefully

5:15 make better decisions and hopefully

5:15 make better decisions and hopefully maybe you'll see new opportunities you

5:16 maybe you'll see new opportunities you

5:16 maybe you'll see new opportunities you wouldn't have seen if you were so

5:18 wouldn't have seen if you were so

5:18 wouldn't have seen if you were so negative there's a lot of benefits to

5:21 negative there's a lot of benefits to

5:21 negative there's a lot of benefits to being positive I feel like most of them

5:23 being positive I feel like most of them

5:23 being positive I feel like most of them are self-evident and uh I lose my temper

5:26 are self-evident and uh I lose my temper

5:26 are self-evident and uh I lose my temper and my patience just as much as anybody

5:28 and my patience just as much as anybody

5:28 and my patience just as much as anybody but that's what I'm talking about the

5:30 but that's what I'm talking about the

5:30 but that's what I'm talking about the Quest for positivity I went through a

5:33 Quest for positivity I went through a

5:33 Quest for positivity I went through a really crazy hardcore you know breakup I

5:37 really crazy hardcore you know breakup I

5:37 really crazy hardcore you know breakup I went through all kinds of super horrible

5:39 went through all kinds of super horrible

5:39 went through all kinds of super horrible depression anxiety I to do all kinds of

5:42 depression anxiety I to do all kinds of

5:42 depression anxiety I to do all kinds of crazy stuff some struggles ongoing and

5:44 crazy stuff some struggles ongoing and

5:44 crazy stuff some struggles ongoing and some that are over or on their way of

5:47 some that are over or on their way of

5:47 some that are over or on their way of being over you know all kinds of crazy

5:49 being over you know all kinds of crazy

5:49 being over you know all kinds of crazy things have happened to me in my life

5:52 things have happened to me in my life

5:52 things have happened to me in my life but at the end of the crazy things

5:54 but at the end of the crazy things

5:54 but at the end of the crazy things happening and I was trying to be as

5:55 happening and I was trying to be as

5:55 happening and I was trying to be as positive as possible during him or the

5:56 positive as possible during him or the

5:57 positive as possible during him or the crazy things happen and I totally let

5:58 crazy things happen and I totally let

5:58 crazy things happen and I totally let myself go and became a total monster

6:00 myself go and became a total monster

6:00 myself go and became a total monster about it it's always when I was positive

6:02 about it it's always when I was positive

6:02 about it it's always when I was positive about it that things ended up a lot

6:04 about it that things ended up a lot

6:04 about it that things ended up a lot better you can kick and you can scream

6:06 better you can kick and you can scream

6:06 better you can kick and you can scream in life when something happens that you

6:08 in life when something happens that you

6:08 in life when something happens that you don't

6:09 don't

6:09 don't like but all that's going to happen is

6:11 like but all that's going to happen is

6:11 like but all that's going to happen is that you wasted a lot of your energy

6:12 that you wasted a lot of your energy

6:12 that you wasted a lot of your energy Kicking and Screaming against things

6:14 Kicking and Screaming against things

6:14 Kicking and Screaming against things that aren't going to change and I have

6:15 that aren't going to change and I have

6:15 that aren't going to change and I have four fingers pointing back at me when

6:18 four fingers pointing back at me when

6:18 four fingers pointing back at me when I'm talking about this because lately

6:19 I'm talking about this because lately

6:19 I'm talking about this because lately like I said oh look at Club 33 up there

6:22 like I said oh look at Club 33 up there

6:22 like I said oh look at Club 33 up there I want its delicious food lately things

6:26 I want its delicious food lately things

6:26 I want its delicious food lately things have been bugging me I've seen just a

6:28 have been bugging me I've seen just a

6:29 have been bugging me I've seen just a lot of things a lot of people around me

6:30 lot of things a lot of people around me

6:30 lot of things a lot of people around me being really sarcastic and nasty to each

6:33 being really sarcastic and nasty to each

6:33 being really sarcastic and nasty to each other I've seen people that I know and

6:36 other I've seen people that I know and

6:36 other I've seen people that I know and respect even that are rude and callous

6:39 respect even that are rude and callous

6:39 respect even that are rude and callous and negative and uh trying to think you

6:43 and negative and uh trying to think you

6:43 and negative and uh trying to think you know just a lot of different examples of

6:44 know just a lot of different examples of

6:44 know just a lot of different examples of it just people who are just really

6:47 it just people who are just really

6:47 it just people who are just really disappointing to see the way that they

6:49 disappointing to see the way that they

6:49 disappointing to see the way that they treat people in their lives or the way

6:52 treat people in their lives or the way

6:52 treat people in their lives or the way that they react to certain situations I

6:53 that they react to certain situations I

6:54 that they react to certain situations I never like to preach at anybody and I

6:55 never like to preach at anybody and I

6:55 never like to preach at anybody and I never like to say hiy You're really

6:56 never like to say hiy You're really

6:56 never like to say hiy You're really screwing up you know person unless

6:58 screwing up you know person unless

6:58 screwing up you know person unless they're really close

7:00 they're really close

7:00 they're really close a really close friend of yours that's

7:02 a really close friend of yours that's

7:02 a really close friend of yours that's really none of your business to call

7:03 really none of your business to call

7:03 really none of your business to call somebody out on something or anything

7:04 somebody out on something or anything

7:05 somebody out on something or anything it's their life they can live the way

7:06 it's their life they can live the way

7:06 it's their life they can live the way they want to you know you follow your

7:09 they want to you know you follow your

7:09 they want to you know you follow your star you let other people follow their

7:11 star you let other people follow their

7:11 star you let other people follow their star it's not up to you to guide people

7:15 star it's not up to you to guide people

7:15 star it's not up to you to guide people people have to really guide themselves

7:16 people have to really guide themselves

7:16 people have to really guide themselves you can only state your opinion and hope

7:20 you can only state your opinion and hope

7:20 you can only state your opinion and hope you know if it's asked for and hope that

7:22 you know if it's asked for and hope that

7:22 you know if it's asked for and hope that uh it's helpful which you can't make

7:24 uh it's helpful which you can't make

7:24 uh it's helpful which you can't make people do anything anyway point is I've

7:26 people do anything anyway point is I've

7:26 people do anything anyway point is I've just seen so many people being

7:27 just seen so many people being

7:27 just seen so many people being so negative around around me and it's

7:30 so negative around around me and it's

7:30 so negative around around me and it's starting to get to me and make me kind

7:31 starting to get to me and make me kind

7:31 starting to get to me and make me kind of upset and negative I don't know why

7:34 of upset and negative I don't know why

7:34 of upset and negative I don't know why but I've been just a little down a

7:35 but I've been just a little down a

7:35 but I've been just a little down a little bummed down there's nothing wrong

7:37 little bummed down there's nothing wrong

7:37 little bummed down there's nothing wrong with it cuz I think it's pretty much

7:39 with it cuz I think it's pretty much

7:39 with it cuz I think it's pretty much natural I think it's a look at that duck

7:41 natural I think it's a look at that duck

7:41 natural I think it's a look at that duck Landing over there I don't trust you

7:42 Landing over there I don't trust you

7:42 Landing over there I don't trust you duck one time I was walking right here

7:44 duck one time I was walking right here

7:44 duck one time I was walking right here the duck landed on my head and just

7:46 the duck landed on my head and just

7:46 the duck landed on my head and just couldn't balance it just went off I was

7:48 couldn't balance it just went off I was

7:48 couldn't balance it just went off I was like ah what is that crazy there was a

7:50 like ah what is that crazy there was a

7:50 like ah what is that crazy there was a lot of screaming involved but um I just

7:52 lot of screaming involved but um I just

7:52 lot of screaming involved but um I just for the record I looked really manly

7:54 for the record I looked really manly

7:54 for the record I looked really manly while I was screaming and being

7:56 while I was screaming and being

7:56 while I was screaming and being terrified of the duck landing on my head

7:57 terrified of the duck landing on my head

7:57 terrified of the duck landing on my head just so you know so anyway yeah a little

7:59 just so you know so anyway yeah a little

7:59 just so you know so anyway yeah a little down in the mouth but only slightly Here

8:01 down in the mouth but only slightly Here

8:01 down in the mouth but only slightly Here Comes The Mark Twain look how

8:03 Comes The Mark Twain look how

8:03 Comes The Mark Twain look how beautiful and uh seeing people be

8:07 beautiful and uh seeing people be

8:07 beautiful and uh seeing people be negative and sarcastic to each other

8:10 negative and sarcastic to each other

8:10 negative and sarcastic to each other here's the biggest thing that's been

8:11 here's the biggest thing that's been

8:11 here's the biggest thing that's been bugging me and I've seen this with a

8:13 bugging me and I've seen this with a

8:13 bugging me and I've seen this with a whole lot of people some that I really

8:15 whole lot of people some that I really

8:15 whole lot of people some that I really respect to and it's really hard for me

8:18 respect to and it's really hard for me

8:18 respect to and it's really hard for me to watch this one thing just really

8:20 to watch this one thing just really

8:20 to watch this one thing just really grinds my gears and bugs me it gets me

8:22 grinds my gears and bugs me it gets me

8:22 grinds my gears and bugs me it gets me down is when people are

8:26 down is when people are

8:26 down is when people are cruel we all have this impulse in us and

8:29 cruel we all have this impulse in us and

8:29 cruel we all have this impulse in us and the people say they don't have it are

8:30 the people say they don't have it are

8:30 the people say they don't have it are lying we all have an Impulse to be cruel

8:33 lying we all have an Impulse to be cruel

8:33 lying we all have an Impulse to be cruel it's part of human nature it's a flaw

8:34 it's part of human nature it's a flaw

8:34 it's part of human nature it's a flaw that we all have either when we get mad

8:36 that we all have either when we get mad

8:36 that we all have either when we get mad or we get bitter or we get grumpy every

8:38 or we get bitter or we get grumpy every

8:38 or we get bitter or we get grumpy every single one of us has the impulse to be

8:39 single one of us has the impulse to be

8:39 single one of us has the impulse to be cruel right if the if the I mean people

8:42 cruel right if the if the I mean people

8:42 cruel right if the if the I mean people there's a reason why crazy people shake

8:43 there's a reason why crazy people shake

8:43 there's a reason why crazy people shake babies and and people kick dogs and

8:46 babies and and people kick dogs and

8:46 babies and and people kick dogs and stuff like that you know horrible things

8:47 stuff like that you know horrible things

8:47 stuff like that you know horrible things but every single one of us has the

8:49 but every single one of us has the

8:49 but every single one of us has the impulse to a greater or lesser degree

8:50 impulse to a greater or lesser degree

8:50 impulse to a greater or lesser degree right we're all human we all have

8:52 right we're all human we all have

8:52 right we're all human we all have failings and impatience and bad temper

8:54 failings and impatience and bad temper

8:54 failings and impatience and bad temper is one of those things hopefully as

8:55 is one of those things hopefully as

8:56 is one of those things hopefully as children we were raised the right way to

8:58 children we were raised the right way to

8:59 children we were raised the right way to to you know that we don't act on all of

9:01 to you know that we don't act on all of

9:01 to you know that we don't act on all of our selfish nasty impulses and we have

9:03 our selfish nasty impulses and we have

9:03 our selfish nasty impulses and we have sort of you know refined ourselves by

9:07 sort of you know refined ourselves by

9:07 sort of you know refined ourselves by the time we're large enough to do any

9:09 the time we're large enough to do any

9:09 the time we're large enough to do any damage so that we don't ask doubt one

9:12 damage so that we don't ask doubt one

9:12 damage so that we don't ask doubt one thing so yeah so none of us hopefully

9:15 thing so yeah so none of us hopefully

9:15 thing so yeah so none of us hopefully none of us are going around kicking

9:16 none of us are going around kicking

9:16 none of us are going around kicking puppies or shaking babies or doing

9:18 puppies or shaking babies or doing

9:18 puppies or shaking babies or doing anything horrible like that however

9:20 anything horrible like that however

9:20 anything horrible like that however there is something that I do notice that

9:22 there is something that I do notice that

9:22 there is something that I do notice that people do that's almost as

9:24 people do that's almost as

9:24 people do that's almost as cruel but we just sort of laugh it off

9:27 cruel but we just sort of laugh it off

9:27 cruel but we just sort of laugh it off and that is to say something cruel or

9:29 and that is to say something cruel or

9:29 and that is to say something cruel or nasty to somebody because you're filled

9:32 nasty to somebody because you're filled

9:32 nasty to somebody because you're filled with bitterness because your day didn't

9:34 with bitterness because your day didn't

9:34 with bitterness because your day didn't go well or because you looked at someone

9:35 go well or because you looked at someone

9:35 go well or because you looked at someone and thought just hate their ugly F you

9:37 and thought just hate their ugly F you

9:37 and thought just hate their ugly F you ever have siblings when you're a kid

9:40 ever have siblings when you're a kid

9:40 ever have siblings when you're a kid I've asked a million people this

9:41 I've asked a million people this

9:42 I've asked a million people this question and almost all of them admit to

9:43 question and almost all of them admit to

9:43 question and almost all of them admit to this some of them don't though we're

9:44 this some of them don't though we're

9:44 this some of them don't though we're just going to have a chance hello um

9:48 just going to have a chance hello um

9:48 just going to have a chance hello um that's my go-to hello voice why you that

9:49 that's my go-to hello voice why you that

9:49 that's my go-to hello voice why you that hello why can't I just say hello like a

9:51 hello why can't I just say hello like a

9:51 hello why can't I just say hello like a normal person anyway when you have a

9:53 normal person anyway when you have a

9:53 normal person anyway when you have a sibling especially if they're close to

9:55 sibling especially if they're close to

9:55 sibling especially if they're close to you in age and you have to sit across

9:56 you in age and you have to sit across

9:56 you in age and you have to sit across from The Breakfast Table with them every

9:58 from The Breakfast Table with them every

9:58 from The Breakfast Table with them every morning and you get up and you're just

10:01 morning and you get up and you're just

10:01 morning and you get up and you're just grumpy I don't know may me girls don't

10:03 grumpy I don't know may me girls don't

10:03 grumpy I don't know may me girls don't do this but they probably do uh and your

10:06 do this but they probably do uh and your

10:06 do this but they probably do uh and your sibling sitting across the table from

10:07 sibling sitting across the table from

10:07 sibling sitting across the table from you eating their cereal and you're

10:09 you eating their cereal and you're

10:09 you eating their cereal and you're eating your cereal and your grumpy it's

10:10 eating your cereal and your grumpy it's

10:10 eating your cereal and your grumpy it's the morning time and you have to see

10:12 the morning time and you have to see

10:12 the morning time and you have to see them every day and you know siblings

10:13 them every day and you know siblings

10:13 them every day and you know siblings fight you're just looking at the you

10:15 fight you're just looking at the you

10:15 fight you're just looking at the you just get I want to see your ugly face

10:17 just get I want to see your ugly face

10:17 just get I want to see your ugly face and you move the cereal box in front of

10:19 and you move the cereal box in front of

10:20 and you move the cereal box in front of their face you don't talk so you just

10:21 their face you don't talk so you just

10:21 their face you don't talk so you just have to see

10:22 have to see

10:22 have to see it I just hate you right now for no good

10:25 it I just hate you right now for no good

10:25 it I just hate you right now for no good reason I love you later I just hate you

10:26 reason I love you later I just hate you

10:26 reason I love you later I just hate you right now uh I don't even know where I

10:29 right now uh I don't even know where I

10:29 right now uh I don't even know where I was going that this is what bugs me is

10:30 was going that this is what bugs me is

10:30 was going that this is what bugs me is that people come and they'll say they'll

10:31 that people come and they'll say they'll

10:31 that people come and they'll say they'll have that thing where they just having a

10:33 have that thing where they just having a

10:33 have that thing where they just having a bad day or something's wrong they just

10:35 bad day or something's wrong they just

10:35 bad day or something's wrong they just snap they take it out on the people and

10:36 snap they take it out on the people and

10:36 snap they take it out on the people and they'll say something horrible and rude

10:39 they'll say something horrible and rude

10:39 they'll say something horrible and rude and mean and awful oh you're looking a

10:42 and mean and awful oh you're looking a

10:42 and mean and awful oh you're looking a little fat today or it could it could be

10:45 little fat today or it could it could be

10:45 little fat today or it could it could be flippant it could be calculated it

10:47 flippant it could be calculated it

10:47 flippant it could be calculated it doesn't matter something cruel and nasty

10:50 doesn't matter something cruel and nasty

10:50 doesn't matter something cruel and nasty you know oh wow yeah really

10:52 you know oh wow yeah really

10:52 you know oh wow yeah really nice there's always a little voice of a

10:55 nice there's always a little voice of a

10:55 nice there's always a little voice of a tone to it it's something gnarly nasty

10:58 tone to it it's something gnarly nasty

10:58 tone to it it's something gnarly nasty something that's cou C at to her

11:00 something that's cou C at to her

11:00 something that's cou C at to her feelings and this is the part that

11:02 feelings and this is the part that

11:02 feelings and this is the part that bothers me it's not just that it's bad

11:05 bothers me it's not just that it's bad

11:05 bothers me it's not just that it's bad enough you know hurting people's

11:05 enough you know hurting people's

11:06 enough you know hurting people's feelings isn't nice I don't care you

11:07 feelings isn't nice I don't care you

11:07 feelings isn't nice I don't care you hear a lot of people who are like that's

11:09 hear a lot of people who are like that's

11:09 hear a lot of people who are like that's life toughen up doesn't have to be life

11:12 life toughen up doesn't have to be life

11:12 life toughen up doesn't have to be life do it have to be life you know did Jim

11:14 do it have to be life you know did Jim

11:14 do it have to be life you know did Jim Crow have to be life or slavery or

11:16 Crow have to be life or slavery or

11:16 Crow have to be life or slavery or anything else that was bad in the world

11:17 anything else that was bad in the world

11:17 anything else that was bad in the world no and I'm you know I don't know it's

11:19 no and I'm you know I don't know it's

11:19 no and I'm you know I don't know it's not it's not comparable to that kind of

11:21 not it's not comparable to that kind of

11:21 not it's not comparable to that kind of stuff but I'm just saying that we don't

11:23 stuff but I'm just saying that we don't

11:23 stuff but I'm just saying that we don't have to accept bad things we can change

11:26 have to accept bad things we can change

11:26 have to accept bad things we can change them maybe even even if it's person by

11:28 them maybe even even if it's person by

11:28 them maybe even even if it's person by person we can't change the world we can

11:29 person we can't change the world we can

11:29 person we can't change the world we can change ourselves in the way we behave

11:31 change ourselves in the way we behave

11:31 change ourselves in the way we behave and I got four fingers pointing back at

11:32 and I got four fingers pointing back at

11:32 and I got four fingers pointing back at me when I say all this stuff cuz I do

11:34 me when I say all this stuff cuz I do

11:34 me when I say all this stuff cuz I do this too but here's the worst part

11:37 this too but here's the worst part

11:37 this too but here's the worst part they'll say the nasty feelings hurting

11:39 they'll say the nasty feelings hurting

11:39 they'll say the nasty feelings hurting thing and then they'll say whatever is

11:41 thing and then they'll say whatever is

11:42 thing and then they'll say whatever is just kidding well whatever just kidding

11:44 just kidding well whatever just kidding

11:44 just kidding well whatever just kidding don't be so touch you just

11:46 don't be so touch you just

11:46 don't be so touch you just kidding right but it's not a joke jokes

11:49 kidding right but it's not a joke jokes

11:49 kidding right but it's not a joke jokes I know a little bit about jokes

11:50 I know a little bit about jokes

11:51 I know a little bit about jokes especially bad ones but jokes are

11:53 especially bad ones but jokes are

11:53 especially bad ones but jokes are usually supposed to be funny aren't they

11:55 usually supposed to be funny aren't they

11:55 usually supposed to be funny aren't they not just cruel oh looking a little fat

11:56 not just cruel oh looking a little fat

11:56 not just cruel oh looking a little fat today and you say hey that really hurt

11:59 today and you say hey that really hurt

11:59 today and you say hey that really hurt hurts my feelings that's terrible oh I'm

12:00 hurts my feelings that's terrible oh I'm

12:00 hurts my feelings that's terrible oh I'm just kidding whatever you know I love

12:03 just kidding whatever you know I love

12:03 just kidding whatever you know I love you you know you're my friend I'm just

12:05 you you know you're my friend I'm just

12:05 you you know you're my friend I'm just kidding no I don't like that at all this

12:09 kidding no I don't like that at all this

12:09 kidding no I don't like that at all this is just a small example I'm talking

12:10 is just a small example I'm talking

12:10 is just a small example I'm talking about see I've been seeing people around

12:12 about see I've been seeing people around

12:12 about see I've been seeing people around me doing a lot of work this is something

12:14 me doing a lot of work this is something

12:14 me doing a lot of work this is something I really don't like and I'm not talking

12:16 I really don't like and I'm not talking

12:16 I really don't like and I'm not talking about sincerely trying to be funny you

12:18 about sincerely trying to be funny you

12:18 about sincerely trying to be funny you can sincerely try to be funny and

12:20 can sincerely try to be funny and

12:20 can sincerely try to be funny and accidentally hurt somebody's feelings

12:21 accidentally hurt somebody's feelings

12:21 accidentally hurt somebody's feelings actually you know when you're joke

12:23 actually you know when you're joke

12:23 actually you know when you're joke around as much as I do you're bound to

12:24 around as much as I do you're bound to

12:24 around as much as I do you're bound to hurt somebody's feelings almost all the

12:25 hurt somebody's feelings almost all the

12:25 hurt somebody's feelings almost all the time right and that's fine I'm not

12:28 time right and that's fine I'm not

12:28 time right and that's fine I'm not talking about your accidentally hurt

12:29 talking about your accidentally hurt

12:29 talking about your accidentally hurt somebody's feelings I'm talking about

12:30 somebody's feelings I'm talking about

12:30 somebody's feelings I'm talking about you know when you said something to

12:31 you know when you said something to

12:32 you know when you said something to people because you were in a bad mood

12:33 people because you were in a bad mood

12:33 people because you were in a bad mood and and then you try to get out of it

12:35 and and then you try to get out of it

12:35 and and then you try to get out of it cuz you know instantly like oh man that

12:37 cuz you know instantly like oh man that

12:37 cuz you know instantly like oh man that was too far like I hurt their feelings

12:38 was too far like I hurt their feelings

12:39 was too far like I hurt their feelings so you go oh just kidding man I'm sorry

12:41 so you go oh just kidding man I'm sorry

12:41 so you go oh just kidding man I'm sorry just kidding get over it just kidding I

12:43 just kidding get over it just kidding I

12:43 just kidding get over it just kidding I feel like that's really mean instead of

12:46 feel like that's really mean instead of

12:46 feel like that's really mean instead of just apologized oh you know what you're

12:47 just apologized oh you know what you're

12:47 just apologized oh you know what you're right I shouldn't have been rude you

12:48 right I shouldn't have been rude you

12:48 right I shouldn't have been rude you just like I'm just kidding I don't know

12:50 just like I'm just kidding I don't know

12:50 just like I'm just kidding I don't know bother you guys too it really bums me

12:54 bother you guys too it really bums me

12:54 bother you guys too it really bums me out when I see people being cruel and

12:57 out when I see people being cruel and

12:57 out when I see people being cruel and then finding excuses for it well you

12:59 then finding excuses for it well you

12:59 then finding excuses for it well you need to

13:00 need to

13:00 need to learn well just kidding well you know

13:04 learn well just kidding well you know

13:04 learn well just kidding well you know whatever especially when it's just

13:06 whatever especially when it's just

13:06 whatever especially when it's just unwarranted unwarranted I never kindness

13:09 unwarranted unwarranted I never kindness

13:09 unwarranted unwarranted I never kindness is just better than this is my core

13:11 is just better than this is my core

13:11 is just better than this is my core belief so kindness is better than

13:12 belief so kindness is better than

13:12 belief so kindness is better than cruelty love is better than hate and

13:15 cruelty love is better than hate and

13:15 cruelty love is better than hate and forgiveness when possible is better than

13:18 forgiveness when possible is better than

13:18 forgiveness when possible is better than revenge

13:19 revenge

13:19 revenge now the the caveat to that that when

13:23 now the the caveat to that that when

13:23 now the the caveat to that that when possible it's really no caveat at all

13:25 possible it's really no caveat at all

13:25 possible it's really no caveat at all because forgiveness is almost always

13:27 because forgiveness is almost always

13:27 because forgiveness is almost always possible and you can forgive by the way

13:29 possible and you can forgive by the way

13:29 possible and you can forgive by the way way and not

13:30 way and not

13:30 way and not forget forgiveness is a good thing it's

13:32 forget forgiveness is a good thing it's

13:33 forget forgiveness is a good thing it's for yourself more than even for the

13:34 for yourself more than even for the

13:34 for yourself more than even for the other people but the and I see a lot of

13:36 other people but the and I see a lot of

13:36 other people but the and I see a lot of people that do forgive cruelty around

13:39 people that do forgive cruelty around

13:39 people that do forgive cruelty around them in their lives Con on a near

13:41 them in their lives Con on a near

13:41 them in their lives Con on a near constant basis but I just I just don't

13:44 constant basis but I just I just don't

13:44 constant basis but I just I just don't like that it's been bugging me lately I

13:47 like that it's been bugging me lately I

13:47 like that it's been bugging me lately I find it in a lot of my relationships

13:48 find it in a lot of my relationships

13:48 find it in a lot of my relationships with people that they'll say something

13:49 with people that they'll say something

13:49 with people that they'll say something gnarly to me like oh yeah you know some

13:53 gnarly to me like oh yeah you know some

13:53 gnarly to me like oh yeah you know some rude thing and then they'll immed oh

13:55 rude thing and then they'll immed oh

13:55 rude thing and then they'll immed oh just kidding man I didn't know oh I

13:57 just kidding man I didn't know oh I

13:57 just kidding man I didn't know oh I didn't know your feelings were going to

13:58 didn't know your feelings were going to

13:58 didn't know your feelings were going to get hurt about it not knowing it doesn't

14:00 get hurt about it not knowing it doesn't

14:00 get hurt about it not knowing it doesn't mean that you didn't hurt somebody's

14:02 mean that you didn't hurt somebody's

14:02 mean that you didn't hurt somebody's feelings not trying to even think now I

14:05 feelings not trying to even think now I

14:05 feelings not trying to even think now I hurt people's feelings by accident and I

14:08 hurt people's feelings by accident and I

14:08 hurt people's feelings by accident and I like everybody else have been

14:09 like everybody else have been

14:09 like everybody else have been embarrassed and tried to cover up my own

14:10 embarrassed and tried to cover up my own

14:10 embarrassed and tried to cover up my own embarrassment oh just kidding you know

14:13 embarrassment oh just kidding you know

14:13 embarrassment oh just kidding you know and sometimes I actually was just

14:14 and sometimes I actually was just

14:14 and sometimes I actually was just kidding so I'll just be trying to

14:15 kidding so I'll just be trying to

14:15 kidding so I'll just be trying to explain oh man I'm really but I always

14:17 explain oh man I'm really but I always

14:17 explain oh man I'm really but I always start with whenever I remember it or

14:19 start with whenever I remember it or

14:19 start with whenever I remember it or whenever I can so almost always start

14:21 whenever I can so almost always start

14:21 whenever I can so almost always start with oh man I'm I'm really sorry I did

14:24 with oh man I'm I'm really sorry I did

14:24 with oh man I'm I'm really sorry I did not mean to hurt your feelings you know

14:26 not mean to hurt your feelings you know

14:26 not mean to hurt your feelings you know I I really just meant this and I thought

14:27 I I really just meant this and I thought

14:27 I I really just meant this and I thought it would be funny I didn't know that

14:29 it would be funny I didn't know that

14:29 it would be funny I didn't know that that was going to hurt your feelings you

14:30 that was going to hurt your feelings you

14:30 that was going to hurt your feelings you know you don't need to have an argument

14:32 know you don't need to have an argument

14:32 know you don't need to have an argument with somebody over whether or not it's

14:34 with somebody over whether or not it's

14:34 with somebody over whether or not it's valid that it hurts their feelings I

14:35 valid that it hurts their feelings I

14:35 valid that it hurts their feelings I always try to respect the feelings of

14:38 always try to respect the feelings of

14:38 always try to respect the feelings of others when I can and uh you know to say

14:43 others when I can and uh you know to say

14:43 others when I can and uh you know to say I'm sorry we're talking about this on

14:44 I'm sorry we're talking about this on

14:44 I'm sorry we're talking about this on Periscope the other night with a lot of

14:46 Periscope the other night with a lot of

14:46 Periscope the other night with a lot of people it really bothers me when I see

14:48 people it really bothers me when I see

14:48 people it really bothers me when I see somebody hurt somebody's feelings

14:50 somebody hurt somebody's feelings

14:50 somebody hurt somebody's feelings doesn't matter what they did and this

14:52 doesn't matter what they did and this

14:52 doesn't matter what they did and this you hurt a person's feelings in your

14:53 you hurt a person's feelings in your

14:53 you hurt a person's feelings in your life that you value you really love this

14:55 life that you value you really love this

14:55 life that you value you really love this person or you respect them they're your

14:57 person or you respect them they're your

14:57 person or you respect them they're your friend or they're your cooworker they

14:59 friend or they're your cooworker they

14:59 friend or they're your cooworker they your son your daughter that your

15:00 your son your daughter that your

15:00 your son your daughter that your grandmother your uncle sister cousin

15:01 grandmother your uncle sister cousin

15:01 grandmother your uncle sister cousin brother and you hurt them you you do

15:04 brother and you hurt them you you do

15:04 brother and you hurt them you you do something you didn't even know you did

15:05 something you didn't even know you did

15:05 something you didn't even know you did something let's say you didn't even know

15:06 something let's say you didn't even know

15:06 something let's say you didn't even know you did something you uh I don't know

15:09 you did something you uh I don't know

15:09 you did something you uh I don't know you use their favorite Kleenex I have no

15:12 you use their favorite Kleenex I have no

15:12 you use their favorite Kleenex I have no idea you heard somebody's feelings they

15:13 idea you heard somebody's feelings they

15:13 idea you heard somebody's feelings they go dude that really hurt my feelings

15:16 go dude that really hurt my feelings

15:16 go dude that really hurt my feelings almost everybody I know's first reaction

15:19 almost everybody I know's first reaction

15:19 almost everybody I know's first reaction especially the closer you are to someone

15:21 especially the closer you are to someone

15:21 especially the closer you are to someone the weirdest thing is I know a lot of

15:22 the weirdest thing is I know a lot of

15:22 the weirdest thing is I know a lot of people who are more polite to people

15:24 people who are more polite to people

15:24 people who are more polite to people they are less close to cuz you kind of

15:26 they are less close to cuz you kind of

15:26 they are less close to cuz you kind of feel like you can get away with being

15:27 feel like you can get away with being

15:27 feel like you can get away with being rude and just don't have to worry about

15:29 rude and just don't have to worry about

15:29 rude and just don't have to worry about it with people you're close to let's

15:31 it with people you're close to let's

15:31 it with people you're close to let's take stock and be really careful about

15:33 take stock and be really careful about

15:33 take stock and be really careful about how we treat the people we profess to

15:36 how we treat the people we profess to

15:36 how we treat the people we profess to love in our lives because let me tell

15:37 love in our lives because let me tell

15:37 love in our lives because let me tell you from firsthand hardcore experience

15:41 you from firsthand hardcore experience

15:41 you from firsthand hardcore experience anything can change at any moment your

15:43 anything can change at any moment your

15:43 anything can change at any moment your your ba your best baay tomorrow could

15:45 your ba your best baay tomorrow could

15:45 your ba your best baay tomorrow could just not even care about you your mother

15:47 just not even care about you your mother

15:47 just not even care about you your mother your father could be dead and gone or

15:50 your father could be dead and gone or

15:50 your father could be dead and gone or the next day say your best friend could

15:51 the next day say your best friend could

15:51 the next day say your best friend could get hit by a bus I'm not trying to be

15:52 get hit by a bus I'm not trying to be

15:52 get hit by a bus I'm not trying to be negative just roll with it here anything

15:55 negative just roll with it here anything

15:55 negative just roll with it here anything can change at any time you get in a

15:57 can change at any time you get in a

15:57 can change at any time you get in a fight with your brother or your sister

15:59 fight with your brother or your sister

15:59 fight with your brother or your sister your mother your

16:01 your mother your

16:01 your mother your father H your son or your daughter you

16:03 father H your son or your daughter you

16:03 father H your son or your daughter you can never talk to them again this is

16:04 can never talk to them again this is

16:04 can never talk to them again this is happened in my family where there's

16:05 happened in my family where there's

16:05 happened in my family where there's actually been a weird fight and one of

16:07 actually been a weird fight and one of

16:07 actually been a weird fight and one of my family members will not talk not my

16:09 my family members will not talk not my

16:09 my family members will not talk not my immediate family but you know my

16:10 immediate family but you know my

16:10 immediate family but you know my extended family and they'll not talk to

16:11 extended family and they'll not talk to

16:11 extended family and they'll not talk to each other again for years so don't take

16:15 each other again for years so don't take

16:15 each other again for years so don't take the people in your life for granted and

16:17 the people in your life for granted and

16:17 the people in your life for granted and don't treat them badly if you can help

16:19 don't treat them badly if you can help

16:19 don't treat them badly if you can help it please don't seriously if if anything

16:23 it please don't seriously if if anything

16:23 it please don't seriously if if anything I've ever said has any value to you at

16:24 I've ever said has any value to you at

16:24 I've ever said has any value to you at all it's that don't ask yourself how you

16:28 all it's that don't ask yourself how you

16:28 all it's that don't ask yourself how you are being treated

16:29 are being treated

16:29 are being treated right ask not what you can do for you

16:31 right ask not what you can do for you

16:31 right ask not what you can do for you don't ask yourself how they're treating

16:33 don't ask yourself how they're treating

16:33 don't ask yourself how they're treating you ask yourself how you treated the

16:35 you ask yourself how you treated the

16:35 you ask yourself how you treated the people close to you in your life today

16:37 people close to you in your life today

16:37 people close to you in your life today how did you treat them how did you make

16:39 how did you treat them how did you make

16:39 how did you treat them how did you make them feel yeah that's it don't ask

16:42 them feel yeah that's it don't ask

16:42 them feel yeah that's it don't ask yourself how other people made you feel

16:44 yourself how other people made you feel

16:44 yourself how other people made you feel ask yourself how you made the people

16:46 ask yourself how you made the people

16:46 ask yourself how you made the people close to you feel today you know so

16:49 close to you feel today you know so

16:50 close to you feel today you know so anyway we've all done the thing we've

16:51 anyway we've all done the thing we've

16:51 anyway we've all done the thing we've hurt somebody's feelings by accident

16:54 hurt somebody's feelings by accident

16:54 hurt somebody's feelings by accident almost everybody I know especially the

16:55 almost everybody I know especially the

16:55 almost everybody I know especially the closer the person is to them reacts with

16:58 closer the person is to them reacts with

16:58 closer the person is to them reacts with this they react

17:00 this they react

17:00 this they react with anger almost you know they react

17:03 with anger almost you know they react

17:03 with anger almost you know they react with like oh come on blah you know I

17:05 with like oh come on blah you know I

17:05 with like oh come on blah you know I love you I wouldn't tell you that or

17:07 love you I wouldn't tell you that or

17:07 love you I wouldn't tell you that or whatever it is or they'll get mad

17:09 whatever it is or they'll get mad

17:09 whatever it is or they'll get mad they'll get mad well I didn't know it

17:11 they'll get mad well I didn't know it

17:11 they'll get mad well I didn't know it was going to hurt your feelings well I

17:12 was going to hurt your feelings well I

17:12 was going to hurt your feelings well I don't know blah blah it's not like I did

17:14 don't know blah blah it's not like I did

17:14 don't know blah blah it's not like I did that or they'll argue over the

17:15 that or they'll argue over the

17:15 that or they'll argue over the legitimacy of it you know well I you

17:17 legitimacy of it you know well I you

17:17 legitimacy of it you know well I you like hey you spent all your time with

17:19 like hey you spent all your time with

17:19 like hey you spent all your time with Timmy yesterday and and you were

17:20 Timmy yesterday and and you were

17:20 Timmy yesterday and and you were supposed to spend it with me well I

17:23 supposed to spend it with me well I

17:23 supposed to spend it with me well I didn't know Timmy invited me and you

17:24 didn't know Timmy invited me and you

17:24 didn't know Timmy invited me and you didn't want to hang out with me whatever

17:25 didn't want to hang out with me whatever

17:25 didn't want to hang out with me whatever it is whatever it is when you hurt

17:27 it is whatever it is when you hurt

17:27 it is whatever it is when you hurt somebody I feel like

17:29 somebody I feel like

17:29 somebody I feel like it should be self-evident but it isn't

17:30 it should be self-evident but it isn't

17:30 it should be self-evident but it isn't always I feel like the best policy would

17:33 always I feel like the best policy would

17:33 always I feel like the best policy would just to be to acknowledge that the

17:36 just to be to acknowledge that the

17:36 just to be to acknowledge that the person's feelings are hurt and treat

17:38 person's feelings are hurt and treat

17:38 person's feelings are hurt and treat that as if it were valid right like I

17:40 that as if it were valid right like I

17:40 that as if it were valid right like I said I deal a lot with strangers now I'm

17:44 said I deal a lot with strangers now I'm

17:44 said I deal a lot with strangers now I'm mostly dealing with people who are close

17:46 mostly dealing with people who are close

17:46 mostly dealing with people who are close to this is the stuff that's been bugging

17:47 to this is the stuff that's been bugging

17:47 to this is the stuff that's been bugging me I can't help but share some of the

17:49 me I can't help but share some of the

17:49 me I can't help but share some of the stuff that's been bugging me and some of

17:50 stuff that's been bugging me and some of

17:50 stuff that's been bugging me and some of the thoughts that are in my head with

17:52 the thoughts that are in my head with

17:52 the thoughts that are in my head with you guys but uh I do a lot with

17:54 you guys but uh I do a lot with

17:54 you guys but uh I do a lot with strangers and uh I put videos out into

17:58 strangers and uh I put videos out into

17:58 strangers and uh I put videos out into the the world and I have discussions

18:00 the the world and I have discussions

18:00 the the world and I have discussions like this with some of you that I've

18:02 like this with some of you that I've

18:02 like this with some of you that I've never met before or I've met once or

18:03 never met before or I've met once or

18:03 never met before or I've met once or twice and I don't know that well and and

18:07 twice and I don't know that well and and

18:07 twice and I don't know that well and and sometimes they don't know me all that

18:09 sometimes they don't know me all that

18:09 sometimes they don't know me all that well even haven't watched that many

18:11 well even haven't watched that many

18:11 well even haven't watched that many videos or whatever it is and so almost

18:14 videos or whatever it is and so almost

18:14 videos or whatever it is and so almost not on a daily basis but almost on a

18:16 not on a daily basis but almost on a

18:16 not on a daily basis but almost on a weekly basis for sure there's somebody

18:18 weekly basis for sure there's somebody

18:18 weekly basis for sure there's somebody who takes something kind of the wrong

18:19 who takes something kind of the wrong

18:19 who takes something kind of the wrong way they'll get their feelings hurt but

18:22 way they'll get their feelings hurt but

18:22 way they'll get their feelings hurt but there are people who drifting and

18:23 there are people who drifting and

18:23 there are people who drifting and they're looking for a reason to be

18:25 they're looking for a reason to be

18:25 they're looking for a reason to be offended or they're just having a bad

18:26 offended or they're just having a bad

18:26 offended or they're just having a bad day and they find something to be

18:27 day and they find something to be

18:27 day and they find something to be offended about with me there are people

18:29 offended about with me there are people

18:29 offended about with me there are people who actually not only one but there are

18:31 who actually not only one but there are

18:31 who actually not only one but there are people who have just said like you know

18:34 people who have just said like you know

18:34 people who have just said like you know they've taken something I've said at

18:36 they've taken something I've said at

18:36 they've taken something I've said at some point out of context and you know

18:37 some point out of context and you know

18:37 some point out of context and you know said made this or this blanket statement

18:39 said made this or this blanket statement

18:39 said made this or this blanket statement about what kind of person I am I'm like

18:41 about what kind of person I am I'm like

18:41 about what kind of person I am I'm like that's not me at all and none of the

18:42 that's not me at all and none of the

18:42 that's not me at all and none of the people that are close to me or know me

18:43 people that are close to me or know me

18:43 people that are close to me or know me would say that I was you know like that

18:45 would say that I was you know like that

18:45 would say that I was you know like that that I was a mean person or whatever it

18:47 that I was a mean person or whatever it

18:47 that I was a mean person or whatever it is that they're upset about but they

18:48 is that they're upset about but they

18:48 is that they're upset about but they just they'll twist something take it out

18:50 just they'll twist something take it out

18:50 just they'll twist something take it out of I'm not talking about that you're all

18:51 of I'm not talking about that you're all

18:51 of I'm not talking about that you're all you can't please everybody don't get me

18:53 you can't please everybody don't get me

18:53 you can't please everybody don't get me wrong that's not what I'm saying I'm not

18:54 wrong that's not what I'm saying I'm not

18:54 wrong that's not what I'm saying I'm not saying you have to put your own feelings

18:56 saying you have to put your own feelings

18:56 saying you have to put your own feelings last and always worry about the

18:59 last and always worry about the

18:59 last and always worry about the politically correct way to treat

19:00 politically correct way to treat

19:00 politically correct way to treat everybody cuz what if somebody gets

19:01 everybody cuz what if somebody gets

19:01 everybody cuz what if somebody gets upset and anytime anyone gets upset that

19:03 upset and anytime anyone gets upset that

19:03 upset and anytime anyone gets upset that must always supersede you know your own

19:06 must always supersede you know your own

19:06 must always supersede you know your own feelings no not necessarily there's room

19:08 feelings no not necessarily there's room

19:08 feelings no not necessarily there's room for there's a valid place for arguing

19:10 for there's a valid place for arguing

19:10 for there's a valid place for arguing with people there's a valid place for

19:12 with people there's a valid place for

19:12 with people there's a valid place for back and forth but I do feel like it is

19:15 back and forth but I do feel like it is

19:15 back and forth but I do feel like it is a human failing overall that when the

19:19 a human failing overall that when the

19:19 a human failing overall that when the people around us get offended by our

19:21 people around us get offended by our

19:21 people around us get offended by our actions and I mean truly offended like

19:23 actions and I mean truly offended like

19:23 actions and I mean truly offended like you really hurt their feelings this is

19:24 you really hurt their feelings this is

19:24 you really hurt their feelings this is someone that trusts you and loves you um

19:27 someone that trusts you and loves you um

19:27 someone that trusts you and loves you um it doesn't matter what it is is maybe

19:29 it doesn't matter what it is is maybe

19:29 it doesn't matter what it is is maybe you didn't call him back fast enough or

19:31 you didn't call him back fast enough or

19:31 you didn't call him back fast enough or maybe you know uh I don't know I don't

19:35 maybe you know uh I don't know I don't

19:35 maybe you know uh I don't know I don't know maybe you left their favorite food

19:37 know maybe you left their favorite food

19:37 know maybe you left their favorite food out you didn't close it up whatever it

19:38 out you didn't close it up whatever it

19:38 out you didn't close it up whatever it is you hurt somebody's feelings or you

19:41 is you hurt somebody's feelings or you

19:41 is you hurt somebody's feelings or you said you know oh man you know all those

19:43 said you know oh man you know all those

19:43 said you know oh man you know all those pants don't look like they fit you

19:44 pants don't look like they fit you

19:44 pants don't look like they fit you anymore whatever it is and they were

19:45 anymore whatever it is and they were

19:45 anymore whatever it is and they were really self-conscious about their weight

19:46 really self-conscious about their weight

19:46 really self-conscious about their weight and you didn't mean it that way at all

19:48 and you didn't mean it that way at all

19:48 and you didn't mean it that way at all you just sort of just Mak an observation

19:49 you just sort of just Mak an observation

19:49 you just sort of just Mak an observation by accident you really you hit on a raw

19:51 by accident you really you hit on a raw

19:51 by accident you really you hit on a raw nerve and they get upset I feel like

19:53 nerve and they get upset I feel like

19:53 nerve and they get upset I feel like most of us what we do is we go oh come

19:55 most of us what we do is we go oh come

19:56 most of us what we do is we go oh come on man you're going to get upset well

19:57 on man you're going to get upset well

19:57 on man you're going to get upset well think about you when you're feeling get

19:59 think about you when you're feeling get

19:59 think about you when you're feeling get hurt that way oh hear that that's Disney

20:01 hurt that way oh hear that that's Disney

20:01 hurt that way oh hear that that's Disney on closing think about that when your

20:03 on closing think about that when your

20:03 on closing think about that when your feelings get hurt that way and somebody

20:05 feelings get hurt that way and somebody

20:05 feelings get hurt that way and somebody treats you with that weird anger like

20:08 treats you with that weird anger like

20:08 treats you with that weird anger like whatever cuz they get embarrassed so

20:10 whatever cuz they get embarrassed so

20:10 whatever cuz they get embarrassed so they act angry it doesn't feel good does

20:12 they act angry it doesn't feel good does

20:12 they act angry it doesn't feel good does it you don't feel like you're being

20:13 it you don't feel like you're being

20:13 it you don't feel like you're being heard you don't feel like you're being

20:14 heard you don't feel like you're being

20:14 heard you don't feel like you're being listen to so I'm not talking about

20:17 listen to so I'm not talking about

20:17 listen to so I'm not talking about comments on the internet I'm not talking

20:19 comments on the internet I'm not talking

20:19 comments on the internet I'm not talking about that I'm talking about people in

20:21 about that I'm talking about people in

20:21 about that I'm talking about people in your

20:22 your

20:22 your life I really feel like and I could be

20:26 life I really feel like and I could be

20:26 life I really feel like and I could be wrong cuz I don't know much about the

20:28 wrong cuz I don't know much about the

20:28 wrong cuz I don't know much about the afterlife the universe or the way it

20:29 afterlife the universe or the way it

20:29 afterlife the universe or the way it works I've never been to outer space or

20:31 works I've never been to outer space or

20:31 works I've never been to outer space or I've never been to the afterlife so I

20:33 I've never been to the afterlife so I

20:33 I've never been to the afterlife so I don't know how it all works in the grand

20:36 don't know how it all works in the grand

20:36 don't know how it all works in the grand scheme of things maybe there's a you

20:38 scheme of things maybe there's a you

20:38 scheme of things maybe there's a you know I have my own theories but I don't

20:40 know I have my own theories but I don't

20:40 know I have my own theories but I don't know how it all works for sure I can't

20:42 know how it all works for sure I can't

20:42 know how it all works for sure I can't tell you from

20:43 tell you from

20:43 tell you from experience why the way why things are

20:46 experience why the way why things are

20:46 experience why the way why things are the way they are but I feel like

20:49 the way they are but I feel like

20:49 the way they are but I feel like honestly the better you treat people

20:51 honestly the better you treat people

20:51 honestly the better you treat people around you the better that you will get

20:52 around you the better that you will get

20:52 around you the better that you will get treated or you know and if that's not

20:55 treated or you know and if that's not

20:55 treated or you know and if that's not always the case because there are plenty

20:56 always the case because there are plenty

20:56 always the case because there are plenty of people who treat everyone around them

20:58 of people who treat everyone around them

20:58 of people who treat everyone around them who are angels just angels on Earth

21:00 who are angels just angels on Earth

21:00 who are angels just angels on Earth treat everybody around them great and

21:02 treat everybody around them great and

21:02 treat everybody around them great and they get abused and stepped on and

21:05 they get abused and stepped on and

21:05 they get abused and stepped on and treated like garbage all the time on

21:07 treated like garbage all the time on

21:07 treated like garbage all the time on purpose not on purpose whatever it is

21:09 purpose not on purpose whatever it is

21:09 purpose not on purpose whatever it is there are plenty of people who never

21:12 there are plenty of people who never

21:12 there are plenty of people who never get uh their Just Desserts right good or

21:15 get uh their Just Desserts right good or

21:15 get uh their Just Desserts right good or bad but I feel like it still matters I

21:18 bad but I feel like it still matters I

21:18 bad but I feel like it still matters I feel like it still makes a huge

21:20 feel like it still makes a huge

21:21 feel like it still makes a huge difference how we treat people this part

21:22 difference how we treat people this part

21:22 difference how we treat people this part of the Quest for positivity you try and

21:24 of the Quest for positivity you try and

21:24 of the Quest for positivity you try and treat as many people as best the best

21:29 treat as many people as best the best

21:29 treat as many people as best the best way that you can right that's part of my

21:32 way that you can right that's part of my

21:32 way that you can right that's part of my philosophy and I really really try to do

21:34 philosophy and I really really try to do

21:34 philosophy and I really really try to do that even when I'm miserable and I'm

21:36 that even when I'm miserable and I'm

21:36 that even when I'm miserable and I'm just kind of down in the dumps and I'm

21:37 just kind of down in the dumps and I'm

21:37 just kind of down in the dumps and I'm just kind of depressed and I just want

21:38 just kind of depressed and I just want

21:38 just kind of depressed and I just want to sit around at home I'll try and you

21:40 to sit around at home I'll try and you

21:40 to sit around at home I'll try and you know do for myself I'm just saying for

21:42 know do for myself I'm just saying for

21:42 know do for myself I'm just saying for myself and there's nobody even around me

21:44 myself and there's nobody even around me

21:44 myself and there's nobody even around me I'll try and do Instagrams or I'll try

21:45 I'll try and do Instagrams or I'll try

21:45 I'll try and do Instagrams or I'll try and do Snapchats or I'll try and do

21:47 and do Snapchats or I'll try and do

21:47 and do Snapchats or I'll try and do something or somebody says they want to

21:48 something or somebody says they want to

21:48 something or somebody says they want to meet me and I'll try and meet up with

21:50 meet me and I'll try and meet up with

21:50 meet me and I'll try and meet up with them or do something that I can do to

21:51 them or do something that I can do to

21:51 them or do something that I can do to make the people around me a little bit

21:53 make the people around me a little bit

21:53 make the people around me a little bit happier if I can I'm not always the

21:55 happier if I can I'm not always the

21:55 happier if I can I'm not always the greatest person at it and I'm not

21:56 greatest person at it and I'm not

21:56 greatest person at it and I'm not important or anything like that I'm just

21:58 important or anything like that I'm just

21:58 important or anything like that I'm just saying

21:59 saying

21:59 saying my own personal life or if I know my

22:01 my own personal life or if I know my

22:01 my own personal life or if I know my friends are going through a hard time

22:02 friends are going through a hard time

22:02 friends are going through a hard time you know I'm trying to say something

22:03 you know I'm trying to say something

22:03 you know I'm trying to say something nice to them or encouraging to them or

22:04 nice to them or encouraging to them or

22:05 nice to them or encouraging to them or call somebody back hello uh just hanging

22:09 call somebody back hello uh just hanging

22:09 call somebody back hello uh just hanging out in empty Disneyland running into

22:11 out in empty Disneyland running into

22:11 out in empty Disneyland running into strangers woohoo this is a nightly thing

22:13 strangers woohoo this is a nightly thing

22:13 strangers woohoo this is a nightly thing for me look at this this is where the

22:15 for me look at this this is where the

22:15 for me look at this this is where the quest positivity started actually in a

22:17 quest positivity started actually in a

22:17 quest positivity started actually in a closed nighttime Fantasy Fair like

22:23 closed nighttime Fantasy Fair like

22:23 closed nighttime Fantasy Fair like this I forget where I was now but you

22:26 this I forget where I was now but you

22:26 this I forget where I was now but you guys understand where I'm going with it

22:27 guys understand where I'm going with it

22:27 guys understand where I'm going with it I'm sure and and this has been quite a

22:29 I'm sure and and this has been quite a

22:29 I'm sure and and this has been quite a long just you and me talking quest for

22:32 long just you and me talking quest for

22:32 long just you and me talking quest for positivity thing but I'm going to be on

22:33 positivity thing but I'm going to be on

22:33 positivity thing but I'm going to be on a trip I don't know I'm going to get to

22:35 a trip I don't know I'm going to get to

22:35 a trip I don't know I'm going to get to a sometimes Vlog tomorrow maybe maybe

22:37 a sometimes Vlog tomorrow maybe maybe

22:37 a sometimes Vlog tomorrow maybe maybe not but I'll definitely be back in the

22:39 not but I'll definitely be back in the

22:39 not but I'll definitely be back in the next 24 to 48 hours with more sometimes

22:43 next 24 to 48 hours with more sometimes

22:43 next 24 to 48 hours with more sometimes well super long one yday this is kind of

22:44 well super long one yday this is kind of

22:44 well super long one yday this is kind of getting running lengthy too so I might

22:46 getting running lengthy too so I might

22:46 getting running lengthy too so I might give it a little bit of a breather let

22:47 give it a little bit of a breather let

22:47 give it a little bit of a breather let you guys catch up with the Vlogs I feel

22:50 you guys catch up with the Vlogs I feel

22:50 you guys catch up with the Vlogs I feel like it's really important I feel like

22:51 like it's really important I feel like

22:51 like it's really important I feel like the way that we treat people's important

22:53 the way that we treat people's important

22:53 the way that we treat people's important even if the even if the results the

22:57 even if the even if the results the

22:57 even if the even if the results the payoff isn't obvious or immediate or

23:00 payoff isn't obvious or immediate or

23:00 payoff isn't obvious or immediate or isn't immediately obvious if the even if

23:02 isn't immediately obvious if the even if

23:02 isn't immediately obvious if the even if the payoff isn't immediately obvious I

23:05 the payoff isn't immediately obvious I

23:05 the payoff isn't immediately obvious I feel like it's somehow essentially

23:07 feel like it's somehow essentially

23:07 feel like it's somehow essentially important the way that we treat other

23:10 important the way that we treat other

23:10 important the way that we treat other people especially the people that it

23:12 people especially the people that it

23:13 people especially the people that it would be the easiest to just take for

23:15 would be the easiest to just take for

23:15 would be the easiest to just take for granted so your mother your father your

23:18 granted so your mother your father your

23:18 granted so your mother your father your uncle your sister your brother your

23:19 uncle your sister your brother your

23:19 uncle your sister your brother your cousin your son or your daughter your

23:22 cousin your son or your daughter your

23:22 cousin your son or your daughter your girlfriend your boyfriend your best

23:24 girlfriend your boyfriend your best

23:24 girlfriend your boyfriend your best friend your you know the people that are

23:26 friend your you know the people that are

23:26 friend your you know the people that are close to you your Co your close

23:27 close to you your Co your close

23:27 close to you your Co your close coworkers

23:29 coworkers

23:29 coworkers you know the people in your life who

23:31 you know the people in your life who

23:31 you know the people in your life who matter the most I just feel like it's

23:33 matter the most I just feel like it's

23:33 matter the most I just feel like it's definitely true that sometimes we take

23:35 definitely true that sometimes we take

23:35 definitely true that sometimes we take them for granted we treat them a lot

23:37 them for granted we treat them a lot

23:37 them for granted we treat them a lot worse than we mean to treat them because

23:39 worse than we mean to treat them because

23:40 worse than we mean to treat them because we think it doesn't matter we'll make up

23:41 we think it doesn't matter we'll make up

23:41 we think it doesn't matter we'll make up for it later it's fine they they'll get

23:43 for it later it's fine they they'll get

23:43 for it later it's fine they they'll get over it or whatever and you know what to

23:45 over it or whatever and you know what to

23:45 over it or whatever and you know what to be honest with you speaking from some

23:47 be honest with you speaking from some

23:47 be honest with you speaking from some pretty bad experiences in my life

23:49 pretty bad experiences in my life

23:49 pretty bad experiences in my life sometimes there isn't a chance for

23:51 sometimes there isn't a chance for

23:51 sometimes there isn't a chance for people to get over it sometimes there

23:53 people to get over it sometimes there

23:53 people to get over it sometimes there isn't a chance to make amends or make up

23:56 isn't a chance to make amends or make up

23:56 isn't a chance to make amends or make up and I want to be very clear that I'm not

23:58 and I want to be very clear that I'm not

23:58 and I want to be very clear that I'm not a lot of people when you start talking

24:00 a lot of people when you start talking

24:00 a lot of people when you start talking about stuff like this you know with your

24:01 about stuff like this you know with your

24:01 about stuff like this you know with your friends or on a periscope or in a vlog a

24:04 friends or on a periscope or in a vlog a

24:04 friends or on a periscope or in a vlog a lot of people chime and leave comments

24:05 lot of people chime and leave comments

24:05 lot of people chime and leave comments and I've done this too where you're

24:06 and I've done this too where you're

24:06 and I've done this too where you're thinking in your head yeah I can totally

24:08 thinking in your head yeah I can totally

24:08 thinking in your head yeah I can totally think of people who don't treat me right

24:10 think of people who don't treat me right

24:10 think of people who don't treat me right isn't that funny hey hello isn't it

24:13 isn't that funny hey hello isn't it

24:13 isn't that funny hey hello isn't it funny how our first instinct is to think

24:15 funny how our first instinct is to think

24:15 funny how our first instinct is to think of the people who don't treat us right

24:17 of the people who don't treat us right

24:17 of the people who don't treat us right I'm entirely talking about the way that

24:19 I'm entirely talking about the way that

24:19 I'm entirely talking about the way that we treat other people but I know some of

24:23 we treat other people but I know some of

24:23 we treat other people but I know some of your minds are running to yeah I know

24:25 your minds are running to yeah I know

24:25 your minds are running to yeah I know what you mean there's this person who

24:26 what you mean there's this person who

24:26 what you mean there's this person who doesn't treat me very good at all they

24:28 doesn't treat me very good at all they

24:28 doesn't treat me very good at all they totally take me for granted listen I

24:30 totally take me for granted listen I

24:30 totally take me for granted listen I have been taken for granted a lot I'm

24:32 have been taken for granted a lot I'm

24:32 have been taken for granted a lot I'm sure well probably not I'm really not

24:34 sure well probably not I'm really not

24:34 sure well probably not I'm really not that valuable of a person but you know

24:37 that valuable of a person but you know

24:37 that valuable of a person but you know we get taken for granted a lot people

24:38 we get taken for granted a lot people

24:39 we get taken for granted a lot people will treat us badly we can't control

24:40 will treat us badly we can't control

24:41 will treat us badly we can't control that you can't control that you can't

24:42 that you can't control that you can't

24:42 that you can't control that you can't look at another person no matter what's

24:43 look at another person no matter what's

24:43 look at another person no matter what's your expectations of them are and no

24:46 your expectations of them are and no

24:46 your expectations of them are and no matter how short they fall you can't

24:48 matter how short they fall you can't

24:48 matter how short they fall you can't look at them and think you owe me nobody

24:51 look at them and think you owe me nobody

24:51 look at them and think you owe me nobody owes any of us anything unless they

24:53 owes any of us anything unless they

24:53 owes any of us anything unless they signed a contract then I guess they do

24:55 signed a contract then I guess they do

24:55 signed a contract then I guess they do kind of owe us uh no one owes it's

24:56 kind of owe us uh no one owes it's

24:56 kind of owe us uh no one owes it's anything but your parents cuz they made

24:58 anything but your parents cuz they made

24:58 anything but your parents cuz they made you

24:58 you

24:58 you and uh you

25:00 and uh you

25:00 and uh you know whatever you whoever you believe

25:02 know whatever you whoever you believe

25:02 know whatever you whoever you believe your creator to be maybe I don't know

25:05 your creator to be maybe I don't know

25:05 your creator to be maybe I don't know but really in the in the in the end at

25:07 but really in the in the in the end at

25:07 but really in the in the in the end at the end of the day nobody owes us

25:09 the end of the day nobody owes us

25:09 the end of the day nobody owes us anything we have to take responsibility

25:11 anything we have to take responsibility

25:11 anything we have to take responsibility for our own happiness and especially if

25:15 for our own happiness and especially if

25:15 for our own happiness and especially if your mind is running to well this and

25:17 your mind is running to well this and

25:17 your mind is running to well this and this person said this and this yeah they

25:18 this person said this and this yeah they

25:18 this person said this and this yeah they treated me wrong stop and think

25:21 treated me wrong stop and think

25:21 treated me wrong stop and think shouldn't you be that much better then

25:23 shouldn't you be that much better then

25:23 shouldn't you be that much better then and hold yourself to that much higher of

25:24 and hold yourself to that much higher of

25:24 and hold yourself to that much higher of a standard before you get upset because

25:26 a standard before you get upset because

25:26 a standard before you get upset because I've been getting upset a lot about the

25:27 I've been getting upset a lot about the

25:27 I've been getting upset a lot about the way people treat me me lately but what

25:30 way people treat me me lately but what

25:30 way people treat me me lately but what that's done is made me stop and start to

25:32 that's done is made me stop and start to

25:32 that's done is made me stop and start to think but how do I treat people do I

25:34 think but how do I treat people do I

25:34 think but how do I treat people do I take people seriously when I hurt their

25:36 take people seriously when I hurt their

25:36 take people seriously when I hurt their feelings most of the time I do but there

25:39 feelings most of the time I do but there

25:39 feelings most of the time I do but there are some people that are close to me

25:41 are some people that are close to me

25:41 are some people that are close to me that I realize you know what I'm

25:43 that I realize you know what I'm

25:43 that I realize you know what I'm probably taking it for granted and I

25:44 probably taking it for granted and I

25:45 probably taking it for granted and I probably shouldn't probably take stock

25:47 probably shouldn't probably take stock

25:47 probably shouldn't probably take stock here's the challenge for today take

25:49 here's the challenge for today take

25:49 here's the challenge for today take stock of who's around you who's close to

25:50 stock of who's around you who's close to

25:50 stock of who's around you who's close to you that you think who I've treated this

25:52 you that you think who I've treated this

25:52 you that you think who I've treated this person think of all the closest people

25:54 person think of all the closest people

25:54 person think of all the closest people to you start in the closest Circle and

25:55 to you start in the closest Circle and

25:55 to you start in the closest Circle and work your way outwards until you think

25:57 work your way outwards until you think

25:57 work your way outwards until you think of somebody that you may be treat

25:58 of somebody that you may be treat

25:58 of somebody that you may be treat treated wrong and U maybe that you treat

26:00 treated wrong and U maybe that you treat

26:00 treated wrong and U maybe that you treat wrong on a regular basis you take you

26:02 wrong on a regular basis you take you

26:02 wrong on a regular basis you take you know for granted and then you don't have

26:03 know for granted and then you don't have

26:03 know for granted and then you don't have to say anything to them try and you know

26:06 to say anything to them try and you know

26:06 to say anything to them try and you know make up for it say something POS if

26:07 make up for it say something POS if

26:08 make up for it say something POS if you've been negative to somebody be

26:09 you've been negative to somebody be

26:09 you've been negative to somebody be positive to them if you've been hurting

26:11 positive to them if you've been hurting

26:11 positive to them if you've been hurting someone's feelings or you know taking

26:13 someone's feelings or you know taking

26:13 someone's feelings or you know taking out your aggression on them or whatever

26:16 out your aggression on them or whatever

26:16 out your aggression on them or whatever it is like maybe say it's your spouse

26:18 it is like maybe say it's your spouse

26:18 it is like maybe say it's your spouse let's say you're a lady and you're

26:21 let's say you're a lady and you're

26:21 let's say you're a lady and you're married to a man let's just say for an

26:23 married to a man let's just say for an

26:23 married to a man let's just say for an example and you've been he's been coming

26:25 example and you've been he's been coming

26:26 example and you've been he's been coming home every day from work and you've been

26:28 home every day from work and you've been

26:28 home every day from work and you've been bus busy baking cakes all day I don't

26:31 bus busy baking cakes all day I don't

26:31 bus busy baking cakes all day I don't know this is just a for instance it

26:32 know this is just a for instance it

26:32 know this is just a for instance it doesn't matter if it's a stereotype or

26:34 doesn't matter if it's a stereotype or

26:34 doesn't matter if it's a stereotype or not we're not dealing with that let's

26:36 not we're not dealing with that let's

26:36 not we're not dealing with that let's just say you well fine you were working

26:38 just say you well fine you were working

26:38 just say you well fine you were working with steel all day long and your husband

26:40 with steel all day long and your husband

26:40 with steel all day long and your husband comes home and every day that he's been

26:41 comes home and every day that he's been

26:41 comes home and every day that he's been coming home you're thinking I've been

26:42 coming home you're thinking I've been

26:42 coming home you're thinking I've been working with steel all day Jose and

26:45 working with steel all day Jose and

26:45 working with steel all day Jose and you're treating Jose pretty badly maybe

26:47 you're treating Jose pretty badly maybe

26:48 you're treating Jose pretty badly maybe do something nice for old Jose or vice

26:50 do something nice for old Jose or vice

26:50 do something nice for old Jose or vice versa or you know you just been taking

26:52 versa or you know you just been taking

26:52 versa or you know you just been taking it out on your little sister all day

26:53 it out on your little sister all day

26:53 it out on your little sister all day kicking her in The Shins or whatnot

26:55 kicking her in The Shins or whatnot

26:55 kicking her in The Shins or whatnot maybe do something nice like buy her

26:56 maybe do something nice like buy her

26:56 maybe do something nice like buy her shin guards or you know if you've been

26:59 shin guards or you know if you've been

26:59 shin guards or you know if you've been particularly controlling of other people

27:01 particularly controlling of other people

27:01 particularly controlling of other people around you maybe let go let them do what

27:03 around you maybe let go let them do what

27:03 around you maybe let go let them do what they want for a change if you've been

27:04 they want for a change if you've been

27:04 they want for a change if you've been talking the remote all week maybe let

27:06 talking the remote all week maybe let

27:06 talking the remote all week maybe let Dad have the remote whatever it is take

27:09 Dad have the remote whatever it is take

27:09 Dad have the remote whatever it is take stock of the people around you close to

27:10 stock of the people around you close to

27:10 stock of the people around you close to you ask be really honest and ask

27:12 you ask be really honest and ask

27:12 you ask be really honest and ask yourself have I been the best me I can

27:14 yourself have I been the best me I can

27:14 yourself have I been the best me I can be and if you haven't I feel like we all

27:17 be and if you haven't I feel like we all

27:17 be and if you haven't I feel like we all fall short of that pretty much all the

27:19 fall short of that pretty much all the

27:19 fall short of that pretty much all the time if you haven't just redouble your

27:21 time if you haven't just redouble your

27:21 time if you haven't just redouble your effort sometimes it's hard trust me it's

27:23 effort sometimes it's hard trust me it's

27:23 effort sometimes it's hard trust me it's hard and some days you're just going to

27:24 hard and some days you're just going to

27:24 hard and some days you're just going to fail and some days you're going to have

27:26 fail and some days you're going to have

27:26 fail and some days you're going to have to just give into the failure you know

27:28 to just give into the failure you know

27:28 to just give into the failure you know get it out of your

27:29 get it out of your

27:29 get it out of your system try and do something the you know

27:31 system try and do something the you know

27:31 system try and do something the you know try and do it in the least damaging way

27:33 try and do it in the least damaging way

27:33 try and do it in the least damaging way to other people as possible when you're

27:35 to other people as possible when you're

27:35 to other people as possible when you're on the war path but when you're done

27:37 on the war path but when you're done

27:37 on the war path but when you're done being on the war path when you come back

27:39 being on the war path when you come back

27:39 being on the war path when you come back to yourself try and be positive just try

27:43 to yourself try and be positive just try

27:43 to yourself try and be positive just try and be positive all right I don't know

27:45 and be positive all right I don't know

27:45 and be positive all right I don't know what the heck all this has been about

27:47 what the heck all this has been about

27:47 what the heck all this has been about other than I love you guys I wanted to

27:49 other than I love you guys I wanted to

27:49 other than I love you guys I wanted to share some of my thoughts with you I'm

27:50 share some of my thoughts with you I'm

27:50 share some of my thoughts with you I'm leaving

27:51 leaving

27:52 leaving Disneyland just for a couple days going

27:54 Disneyland just for a couple days going

27:54 Disneyland just for a couple days going on a little trip no big deal some

27:56 on a little trip no big deal some

27:56 on a little trip no big deal some filming stuff some pretty cool stuff I'm

27:58 filming stuff some pretty cool stuff I'm

27:58 filming stuff some pretty cool stuff I'm very excited about I'm sure you'll be

28:00 very excited about I'm sure you'll be

28:00 very excited about I'm sure you'll be there with me Periscope Twitter Justice

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28:05 guard Instagram live fast IP make sure to follow me on social networks this

28:07 to follow me on social networks this

28:07 to follow me on social networks this week is the week to go and download

28:10 week is the week to go and download

28:10 week is the week to go and download Instagram for example or whatever it is

28:13 Instagram for example or whatever it is

28:13 Instagram for example or whatever it is because because it just is it's the week

28:16 because because it just is it's the week

28:16 because because it just is it's the week what is this almost September it's

28:18 what is this almost September it's

28:18 what is this almost September it's almost September you don't want to miss

28:19 almost September you don't want to miss

28:19 almost September you don't want to miss out on summer happenings and it's almost

28:22 out on summer happenings and it's almost

28:22 out on summer happenings and it's almost over so anyway going off on some more

28:25 over so anyway going off on some more

28:25 over so anyway going off on some more Adventures bringing you guys with me

28:26 Adventures bringing you guys with me

28:26 Adventures bringing you guys with me though and uh I got to go home do a lot

28:29 though and uh I got to go home do a lot

28:29 though and uh I got to go home do a lot of laundry pack up look at the people

28:31 of laundry pack up look at the people

28:31 of laundry pack up look at the people they want to look they want to see

28:32 they want to look they want to see

28:32 they want to look they want to see what's going on packing up getting ready

28:34 what's going on packing up getting ready

28:34 what's going on packing up getting ready to go so we see you guys soon but just

28:36 to go so we see you guys soon but just

28:36 to go so we see you guys soon but just by watching this Vlog and by taking

28:39 by watching this Vlog and by taking

28:39 by watching this Vlog and by taking stock and being

28:40 stock and being

28:40 stock and being positive you've done your duty you can

28:44 positive you've done your duty you can

28:44 positive you've done your duty you can go home and sleep well live fast I

28:49 go home and sleep well live fast I

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